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I can't make her cum with fingers or oral, and I've got no rubber for sex...how do I find her G-spot?

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Question - (25 April 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2011)
A male United States age 26-29, *oushite writes:

i can't seem to make my gf cum by my fingers... she doesn't let me touch her clitoris cuz she says it is too sensitive..we can't do oral either cuz she isnt comfortable yet and we have no rubber for sex..

any tips other then the g-spot because i can't find that either

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (25 April 2011):

Odds agony auntI'll echo the sentiment that you are too young to be having sex. Even if you can get a rubber, don't do it just yet.

However, for future reference, you don't have to touch the clit directly to stimulate it. You can stimulate the clitoral hood, all the way around the vagina exterior. You can stroke or apply pressure with your fingers to the area near the clit, or on the hood. How close to the actual clit you get depends on how sensitive the girl is (which can vary not just from girl to girl, but from time to time).

Here's another trick - take some time to play with the hood and the exterior, teasing with your fingers, until she's getting wet. Stick your first two fingers in an inch at a time, then two, and so on until they're all the way in (this should take a few minutes of teasing). Once they're all the way in, reach with your thumb over the outside over her body to press down on her underbelly. From inside, gently curl your fingers (be sure to trim yours nails) so you're almost "pinching." Again, gently, at least at first, adjust according to her sensitivity. This spot should be pretty close to the G-spot, and the webbing of your thumb should be right up next to her clit. Move your hand back and forth, just a fraction of an inch, while applying pressure with your fingertips and the webbing of your thumb. If you do it just right, you should be able to stimulate the G-spot and clit at the same time.

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A male reader, Mark_25_ United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2011):

Mark_25_ agony auntI'm with N91, stop trying to be mature and do what you should be at that age. Your kids, don't pretend otherwise.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2011):

N91 agony auntYou are 13-15 having sex? That is breaking the law and shouldn't even be happening.

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A male reader, Drew21 Canada +, writes (25 April 2011):

Drew21 agony auntEh, foreplay foreplay foreplay. Get her so riled up that she needs you to touch her, and then experiment.

I can remember my first girlfriend and i just lying around in bed together for hours, figuring out how we both worked. It takes a lot of work, but the rewards are worth it.

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