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writes:i haven't been having sex for that long and have only had sex around 8 times but every-time including the 1st and the last time Ive had sex Ive bleed afterwards and it can be fairly painfull during and after sex.. should i get this checked out or will it go away after the more sex i have? advice would mean allot :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): Yes go get it checked before you have sex again, it could be a serious problem.
He could also be too rough on you, do you take control at all during sex or does he do everything? All the motion and stuff, because he might just be going too hard. Sex is not painful and if it is then you have to try different positions and levels of motion etc. until you're more comfortable with it. There are two of you in this, you need to take some control and tell him when he is or is not being too rough, pushing too deep etc.
But first things first got your doctor and get referral to an ob/gyn it's better to get checked medically if you notice any physical abnormalities.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 April 2011):
 does not sound right... need to get it checked out....
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (26 April 2011):
 It doesn't sound quite right to me, so I would take myself off to the doctors if I were you. Better to be sure hey.
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