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How do I convince him I'm good in bed? He doesn't realise that I'm a virgin.

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Question - (25 April 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I'm a virgin but I want to sleep with this guy who doesn't think im a virgin and will never know I'm a virgin as then he'll think I lied to him. Anyway, he's slept with lots of girls so is is experienced and I want him to think that I'm good in bed but is that impossible if I'm a virgin? How do I make myself seem experienced and good in bed and also how to I perform good oral sex? I've broken my hymen so that's fine also! Please help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2011):

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Just enjoy the experience and you will be good...experience does not make you good or bad....you have nothing to PROVE to anyone and if you go in to this feeling this way...it may well spoil it for you...just let go and love every bit of THE EXPERIENCE and become PART of it.

You have Nothing to prove!!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011):

I agree with LazyGuy.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (25 April 2011):

LazyGuy agony auntAh, so this is how girls who will later regret their first time think at the time.

Interesting.

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A female reader, moon river  United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2011):

moon river  agony auntGood oral sex. You need to find out which part he likes of his penis being touched most. The easiest way is to ask him but if you don't feel confident or comfortable enough then just treat the whole penis the same.

Generally speaking you want to grip the base with your hand and slide it up and down whilst sucking from the top and moving your mouth up and down to meet your hand (especially if he's really big!) because this way your simulating the whole thing.

If you do choose to ask him which part he likes best then if it's the tip make sure you use your Tongue on it loads, I would recommend using your Tongue to lick his cock hard anyway. If he likes the very bottom of his cock being touched then it's normally best to grip it withyour hand it massage it or everynow and then go down and lick around it.

I guess one way you could appear experienced would just to be super confident.

Maybe a little bit of a strip tease?

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