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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): You don't need to buy your partner anything to prove your serious, its really the little things that prove how much they mean to you.If you have spoken about this with you partner, you should let tell them you love them that would be a start, then its important to follow through with that statement,by showing interest in there life, being faithfull, building up a contact routine with your patner making them feel secure in the relationship, meeting eachothers family and close friends, doing things together apart from sex, but things you both enjoy together and of course respecting eachother. Also having deep meaningful convo, get your partners opinion on things, this shows your interested and serious.If all the above is evident then it should be proof that both people are serious about the relationship. This would be more solid evidence than a gift in my opinion.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (26 April 2011):
 If she is young like you, a piece of jewelry will do it, make sure it costs a little bit, so she will know she's special. Then tell her you love her and she's the only woman for you. Tell your folks and friends that she's officially your girlfriend, so they know to treat her with the extra respect she deserves.mmm.. yep, that will do it. She will show the jewelry to her family and friends and your serious without being engaged. (best not to buy a ring.. too close to proposing marriage)
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reader, charliesdevil73  +, writes (26 April 2011):
 First of all, why do you need to prove you are serious. Like janniepeg said, this comes into play when there is no trust in a relationship. If your girl is wanting you to prove you are serious there is a chance you will always have to prove it. If you want to do it just for your own personal reasons, then just telling the girl something like "I really like you and you make me happy. I don't plan on going anywhere" is a good way. And you can replace like with love if you two are at that stage.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (26 April 2011):
 I don't know where that question is coming from but I would never tell any guy to prove he's serious. This question comes in when there is no trust yet because the relationship is still new and she doesn't know whether she's the only girl for you. I would only hope that he calls more often, cares about my feelings. When the time comes let me visit his family and friends. When you are serious with the right person there isn't anything to prove. You would naturally plan and do things together, and head for the right direction like marriage in the future.
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