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writes:My boyfriend is moving to south carilonia thursday 4-28-11 :( i want to know if i kiss him will it make it even harder for me and him when he moves? And also does long distance relationships last long.. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2011): I suppose that him being your boyfriend means you've already kissed him. And if you have agreed to keep a long distance relationship then the natural thing would be a nice kiss. I don't think a kiss will make things less or more difficult for you.
Now, if you have never kissed him and he's only a good friend you like, then I guess kissing him would make things harder, because of the whole what-might-have-been feelings you both might get.
And about long distance relationships, they are waaaaay harder than regular ones. I know a case which worked out well, but they were both adults and went through a lot until she could move to his country and marry. Also there is a lot of angst, and needing to see or hug the other person, and trust issues that might arise.
Good luck
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reader, dirtball +, writes (25 April 2011):
 No, most long distance relationships do not work, especially at your age. The reason is that it's very difficult to see each other. Really, you want a BF who can be there when you need him, and sometimes the phone, or skype just isn't enough.Should you kiss him? That's up to you. It will likely make things more difficult for you both, but it will also likely be the last time you see each other for a long time, if not forever, so it might be a good send off.
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