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writes:I have a real problem here , I think I love my cousin, he is totally fit and everything , I think about him all the tome and I don't stop , I remember even actually having a sexual dream about us two having sex and it keeps getting worse and worse and I have no one to talk to about it and it I feel like it is wrong and incest and I shouldn't be thinking these things but I can't help but think about it , so please help me and message me back asap x
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reader, Ngyzee  +, writes (26 April 2011):
My dear, where i come from its totally unacceptable. They r lots of guys out there u can choose from. It doesnt really matter if he feels the same way, ur parents might not even agree to that. Pls do well to have a rethink of the situation.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (26 April 2011):
 UK law... it is legal to marry your cousin, so it is legal to date them or have sex with them.In some cultures within the UK (South Asia) marriage amongst cousins are preferred to marriage outside of the family. Even the royals have been known to marry cousins. Members of the gypsy community also normally marry cousins.Culturally you can marry, date or have sex with your cousin however because you share the same family, casual sex and casual relationships are frowned upon. This is a person who you will have to talk to until the day you die, so you can't upset each other or make each other cry. Relationships between cousins are taken as a serious business and marriage is expected to result.At your age, you are too young to make a commitment of marriage and therefore a relationship between you and your cousin would not usually be allowed.I suggest you go talk to your mother about how your feeling. Your not doing anything wrong for having these feelings. But it is not possible to even consider a kiss until you are over the age of 16.The feelings your having are normal, at your age it is mostly hormones, your turning to an adult woman and your developing your sexuality. Problem is, you like him now, but in 2years time when your older you will probably like someone else. The feelings your having will probably not last. Many girls feel like this about rock stars and movie stars. Some girls feel like this about their teachers. The feelings usually go once you are old enough to date and get a boyfriend.Go and talk to your mother. It will be ok, she will understand. Your growing, your cousin is sexy, but I don't think your ready to marry anyone yet.
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reader, Deadandalive  +, writes (26 April 2011):
Does he feel the same way? It isn't illegal to marry or have a relationship with a cousin. You will probably have to face a lot of bullpoopie from family if you guys do work out, but if you love him and he loves you back, so let it be.
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