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female
age
30-35,
*ose22
writes:hey everyoneokay heres the deal ive been with this guy for three years.. and i love him i think. but i met this guy not long ago and he seems nice and he flirts with me and i have to admit i flirt with him. hes exciting and new but i feel bad about being flirty with him when im with my bf. is there something wrong with me? its been along time that ive been with my bf but i feel like sometimes things get into a rut. im not sure what to do..could someone please help me... id like some help.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (25 April 2011):
Yes. Right now you are cheating on your boyfriend by flirting with the other boy. You should make up your mind and choose one of the an let the other alone.
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reader, CSHopeless  +, writes (25 April 2011):
You're always going to have these temptations, even when you're married.
Flirting never leads to anything good for the ones who are already in a relationship.
Learning to resist the new, exciting temptation is going to be hard, especially when the temptation is exciting for you, but you have to be honest with yourself...
Do you want temporary fun? OR do you want perfect for a lifetime?
Instead of that new, exciting temptation, if you are truly happy with your current boyfriend, maybe ask him to try some new, exciting things with you.
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