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writes:OMG...I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO...I come across this message my boyfriend had sent april last year. I dont know what to make of it. I know he has never really been into sex with me... like he does it but yeh... I always just thought it was because I needed to lose some weight. He did send this message after he went through a really rough patch with a girl he was seeing. She cheated on him etc. He has asked me in the past what my fetish is but he would never tell me his. I dont know what to makle of this message even if it was sent a year ago. It was sent to a man who lives in melbourne and is obviously gay. hey how u going i added u a while ago i want to go gay i have had enough of chics but i have a problem i dont know haow to find some1 or where ? this is is pritty weird because i dont know u but im into crossdressing but yeah can u help me find some1 my name is and and and and and mt mobile is %^ and ^ and %^$%^^ and PLEASE HELP!! We have been together for about 8 months.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (27 April 2011):
 There's no skipping around the fact you snooped, plus you have other evidence against him that leads you to believe he's gay. Actually there's no doubt about, he's definitely gay.
If you're sick of the mediocre relationship then just dump him. I'm sure he'll be relieved. How's he supposed to dump you? "I can't do this anymore because I'm gay". Just stop prolonging the inevitable, end it. Because as of now you're dating a gay guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont think hes straight gay... hes been with so many chicks... but then who knows... I think hed be open to being with a guy though. Last night we were both havin a few beers and he had had a few more then me so was just telling me diff stories. At a party we went to a month or so ago... we had all had a bit to drink and this guy kissed him on the lips in front of everyone dont think anyone thought anything of it... but last night he called him his bf... i dont think I would have thought anything of it if i hadnt come across this message. The guy I was seeing before him they are both mates. Not close but mates. And he brought up how this other guy still brings up wanting to have a threesome. But then he talked about all these other chicks he had picked up on his travels and a few other things. I just dont know what to do or how to bring it up...I cant tell him that I was snooping and come across this message. :/ But im sick of having a mediocre sex life n him always tellin me its not all about sex... of course its not all about sex but come on! Missionary and spooning position all the time does get a bit old after its 100th time lolSorry guys thanks for listening
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reader, aaringurl  +, writes (26 April 2011):
I really admire you're melancholy, cuz some girls, after knowing that kind of thing with their boyfriends, they'd go ballistic and wouldn't even have to time to asses the situation pretty well. YOu even went to the extent of asking what to do which is very mature way of handling things.
Take it one step at a time. Be honest with your boyfriend and how you are feeling. If he indeed keep you as a cover up, then go pack, and if he was just confused with the situation, then give him a chance. ^.^ Talk it through ..
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (26 April 2011):
Confront him.
If your boyfriend is indeed gay then your next step is to call it quits on this relationship. I mean there's no arguing with him on it, or changing his mind..if it's guys he wants then you just can't compete with that. Sorry.
Maybe you guys can still be friends?
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