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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:This may be a dumb question but this is my first relationship and until now I have not had much contact at all with men.Sometimes when me and my boyfriend are making out or having sex his eyes well up as if he's going to cry. I don't know if this means something about us being together upsets him or if its just that he's frequently overcome with emotion. :/ I'd ask him myself but he's quite a masculine guy and he pretends that he almost never cries so I don't want to embarrass him by letting him know I've noticed this. One time when we were having sex I told him I loved him and he said it back but then his eyes got all red and watery again and then he couldn't come. :o We've never had that problem before.All this concerns me because I'm the first person that he has been with after he was in a very long very serious long term relationship and I'm concerned that the way he feels about me is being affected by his past relationship. He's assured me that things between them are long over but I'm aware that after them being together so long there's no way he can just cut her put of his heart and his mind. Am I over-analysing? Or is his emotion really all about me? Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (26 April 2011):
 I think you're overanalyzing this. I think the emotion is about you. I know that the girl I'm seeing has triggered similar responses in me, and it's due to how she makes me feel. I can't speak for him of course, but I'd be willing to bet that it has to do with you and how you make him feel.
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