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writes:So, I've always known im straight. Ive had boyfriends and im sexually active. I know I want to be with a man but lately girls are becoming sexually attractive to me. Like i dont want to be in a relationship with a women but i'm wondering what it would be like to be with one..and women sometimes are more easy to fantasize. Is this just hormones or some kind of a phase? Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 Could be both, could be none. Could be you developing your tastes and learning to appreciate the good looks of women. Waning a woman for sexual pleasures, without wanting a relationship, is not that unheard of. Doesn't mean you are gay, but what difference do labels make anyway? If you want to have sex with a woman to experience it, go for it. If you don't want a relationship with her, just make sure she understands that so that there is no confusion. Other than that follow the regular rules of the book, don't cheat, don't lie, don't deceive, and be honest. And define yourself whatever way you like. A popular definition for you is bicurious, if you want to call yourself that then do so. If you feel uncomfortable calling yourself anything other than straight then don't call yourself anything other than straight. Your sexuality is your personal business after all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): As a lesbian myself it's harder to say, however all of my friends say they have fantasised about women at some point and they're all straight. Everyone says it's easy to fantasise about women rather than men for various reasons, it could just be a phase or perhaps your mind finds it easier to fantasise about women. It probably doesn't mean anything.
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