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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone, I'm having a problem and I'm not sure what to do at all so any advice or thoughts will be greatly appreciated. So my fiancee whom iv been with for five years and that I live with did something very suspicious tonight. Before I begin just to set the record straight he has a history of doing this but swore to stop over a year ago and hasn't done anything I'm aware of since then...but tonight I had to use his phone since mine was dead and it was just gona be really quick so I just grab and he instantly reacts and I can tell he didn't want me to have it and when I mentioned texting someone he tried to say he would just do it which is abnormal. His entire behavior was defensive. Then I finally have the phone and I honestly wasn't trying to look through it but I knew the persons number I needed was at the bottom of his texts from like a week ago, so I'm scrolling down and see a text from just a number no name and I can see a few words and then the persons signature which was little freak..that grabbed my eye but I kept on doing what I was doing thinking it was nothing. Then a few minutes later he comes to where I am and takes the phone from me to supposedly set his alarm..he has a smart phone so whatever screen your on when you turn the screen light off it comes back up what you were on..thinking the alarm or home screen would be up, it wasn't. His texts were up and it was scroolled to about the middle..no where near where I was and the little freak number was deleted. When I questioned him he said it was his friend who has been staying on our couchs girlfriend sending him pics ans he didn't want me to get mad so he deleted it. That story could've worked but his friend had also texted two other numbers which weren't deleted and he's the type of guy that would have bragged to everyone if a girl sent him a pic and he didn't. I just honestly think it wasn't the friend but he swears it was. I don't know what to do at all. Should I believe someone who has done this numerous times in the past and blamed it on friends and then came clean later on or should I keep trying to get the truth out? Thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2011): it's horrible to live your life under those conditions....tell him to kick rocks!! Let him go make someone else miserable with his lies, not you!
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