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writes:I have recently discovered that my boyfriend is joined to two or three different internet sex sites where he can search for women in the same area as him to meet up and have sex with them :/ I don't know if he has ever actually used it or met up with anyone, but if he hasn't then why would he have the accounts?We have been together almost two years, admittedly we argue quite frequently about the drugs that he does, but we have regular, good sex and in September are moving in together. So I don't understand why he would feel the need to join a website like this.He is also going to Amsterdam over the summer with his friends, I do trust him, but finding this out is making me wonder if he is going to go and have sex with women while he is there?I do love him, but I will not stay with him if he ever has or does cheat on me.Should I confront him about it? If I do, and he says he hasn't, is there anything I can do to find out if he is lying or not?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 April 2011):
On-the-spot-dumping. Seriously, given this and the drug problem, you'd be better losing him now that being in one of those "we told you so" situations later on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): Thta's horrible. I'm, sorry you had to find this out. it does not mean he's doing something, but it's still not right. I had/ have this problem too.. it's difficult to know what to do. He may be on it for sex chat only. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): Get rid! You don't trust him, he does drugs, he has joined up to sex sites when he has a girlfriend. He defently has every intention of sleeping with other women behind ur back, why else would he join sex sites!
Your letting ur heart rule you over common sence, but you wouldn't love him if you could see what he get's up to behind your back. You would be heart broken and feel totally betrayed. Get rid of him before you get pregnant with his baby and stuck with him in ur life. You can do better than that. He sounds like a male dog that would sleep with any one because any hole is a gole to ur man.
I dread to think what he's going to be doing in Amsterdam.
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