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writes:So my ex gf and i broke up a few months ago and we both went our separate ways. I only dated a few girls but i never went as far as touching them. Now my ex gf and i started talking again and we are thinking about getting together again. the problem is that we were talking about what weve been doing and who we dated while we were apart and a sex talk came up. i told her that i hadnt done anything but she said that she did. She had sex with her ex after me. But stupid me asked her if i was the biggest shes ever had thinking she would say yes and she said no. Shes only been with me and him so that told me he was bigger. And out of curiosity i asked her how big he was and she said "how big are you" i said like 6.5 and then she said "well he was like 8 or 9 because he was significantly bigger" but she said i had more girth. I dont think shes exaggerating to make me feel bad because she didnt want to tell me in the first place but stupid me insisted thinking at first that i was the biggest and then later i thought maybe just half an inch or something.Now all i can think about is her getting it from him and its driving me nuts! Not only that but it makes me feel small giving it to her because i know shes had 9 inches in her. how do i get over all this! If i would have met her after this guy i would have been fine but since i was her first everything, then she went with him then back to me then i feel weird... and this happened over a span of a year.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell it didnt start out as me asking questions, i really could have cared less, but she started the conversation. she is the jealous type and she started asking things about the girl i went out with.Kind of like what we did, did we kiss, hold hands, where at, and the big question of "is she prettier than me?" in reality the other girl makes my ex look like horrible. she's gorgeous but i didnt want to push her away or anything becasue she is the jealous type and if i would have said she was then she would have made a big scene so i just went ahead and told her that she was prettier than that girl but since she was asking ?s i went ahead and asked her that expecting the other guy to be around my size. i wouldnt really care if she would have said 7 or 7.5 but 9 is just massive... it makes mine look like nothing and i know mines average.
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reader, inhibited  +, writes (26 April 2011):
 Assuming you don't think she's being vindictive it's nice she's been so honest with you. Although she could have been slightly more tactfull and said maybe 7-8 instead of 8-9 possibly.
That said what's done is done and you're just going to have to get over it or move on. She's been with another man. Not just you. She's roughly your age I'd assume so 2 partners at 18-21 isn't too "bad" looking at it from your point of view.
6.5" is about average some are wayyy bigger some are wayyy smaller it's just life. Get over it. Some women do prefer girth to length assuming you're not too short which at 6.5 you ain't.
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