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writes:HI All, Some insights would be welcome please!!I split up with my ex sometime back, but we have still kept contact. I went out with someone new for around 7 weeks, and did not contact my ex, then called him up to see how he was after I ended it with the other guy. he would not take my calls, and was not returning my texts. I was a bit upset, but understood that he had moved on and respected that. Anyway, me and my ex met on a dating website which I decided to rejoin last week. I put new photos on and put' seeking a new relationship' on my status. I viewed my ex, and he immediatley sent a message saying' New photos..... very nice; and a wink. I was not sure how to take this, and thought he was being sarcastic? It threw me off a bit, especially as he was ignoring me for so long, then popped up with a message like that. I still have feelings for him, but have been trying to move on. Anyway, I messaged back saying thankyou, and I hope you are enjoying the sunshine?, and that I was away ( which I was) and have heard nothing back. Was he being sarcastic after ignoring me all this time? it's thrown me off a bit, and I don;t know what to make of it, as I thought he had moved on for good after ignoring me. I am not going to change my status, but am a bit confused as to why he messaged at all on the site?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi ND, thanks for your answer - good advice.. I will keep moving forward and stop reading in!! I was just a bit freaked that he messaged at all!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Drew,
Thanks for your answer. Yes, it's a website where you can see who has viewed you - so he would have known. I was just a bit surprised he messaged at all. I thought he might just look andthat was that. Not sure why he had to do that and let me know he knew?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Blonde, thanks for your answer. :o) You are right - I need to ignore him next time. I just wondered why he felt the need to do this? it stired my feelings up again,and I DO want to move on properley!! XX
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reader, Drew21  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 Is this a website where you can see who has looked at your profile?He probably just saw that you had looked at him, and sent a message to let you KNOW he knew.I would stay away from him. Forget about him. Block him. It sounds like you still have feelings for him, but it doesn't look like he's interested.
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