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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have been together four years in May...now i'm starting to feel like i should leave him, because we hardly ever have sex i love him more than anything but i'm starting to get irratated at him..he's always like i'm tired...he looks at porn when i'm at work...what should i do?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): four years. And you the responsible one. He's living on easy street. And sometimes i can be understanding that someone id Depressed. But i'll make an exception for him.
You no doubt also probably pay the lions share of the bills.
I understand that you love him, so my advice may be ignored. But i truly think you can do so much better than this lazy layabout.
Yes, next time he is out watching a local game, or picking up his takeaway: pack up his things, pack his bags. Get the locks changed. Stack his things in a neat pile outside. Call him up and ask him to pick up his stuff.
Then give your home a huge spring clean and take back your life. Yes i know you love this guy. But you really do deserve a whole lot more than a layabout who is too tired for sex and watches porn all day while you are out working.
It is tough and hard to do the things that are in our best interests, but radical surgery is called for in this relationship.
Sorry the advice had to be tough. But this relationship is going no where fast.
Next time be a little more demanding about what is ok and what is not.
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