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Should I carry on or back off?

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Question - (25 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2011)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There is a friend of mine. he has been my friend since 3-4 years. we know almost everything about each other. he was flirtatious. some time back i had some problems with my ex boyfriend. so my friend told me that he loves me since one year and wanted to contact me but could not. i started to grow feelings for him but then i came to know that he is still in relationship with his ex.

now i know that he is illegally married to her and cannot leave her. he told me this himself. he talks to her infront of me at times and i get hurt badly but i never react. and it seems that he is happy with her.

i also know the fact that he cannot hurt me delibrately ever. he says sorry later on.

i still have some hope in my heart that he will be mine someday. that he will realise .but my friends say that i am spoiling my life after him.

please tell me what should i do?

carry on or back off?

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A male reader, alone11 India +, writes (25 April 2011):

well your friends are right its better you be away from him he is a cheat her is having a relations with another girl and if you accept him and stick to him he will also bring his ex to you and live along with her plz think bout your self and start a good life

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