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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I just ended a bad relationship of 8 years in which i did not love this man but came out with a 4yr old daughter. I saw one of my ex bf at a wedding and he was there with his girl friend. so long story short we end up going out on a date and we had so much fun i am liking him a lot and cannot get him off my mind....hes a mutual friend of the groom. the situation is we both like really like each other... i don't want to get emotionally involved with him right now sexually for a number of reasons: his girlfriend he has a child with, im just coming out of a bad situation... and need to focus at the moment. i broke it off on our second date when we almost got seen together by his girl friend but she did not see us.i suggested we be friends for now until i get some things straight in my life. he responds with a text being really self loathing and saying he gave me the opp to show him i was very capable of outdoing his current girl. and at this point he has not wants or worries. so i responded back with hopefully we can b friends and keep in touch but he did not text me back and i dont even want to call him back after his text remarks...I like him alot but we dont have very much in common but strong attraction...he wants to sleep with me and im not ready to go there yet.I want to keep him around until i am ready...maybe i will not contact him for about 6 months to teach him not to be so full of himself...i am smart pretty attractive women but i afraid i won't meet another man i like as much as i like him...What to do?all I can think about is how bad i want to have sex with him.my friends say i can do better but i still am hoping to have something with him in the future.his girl friend is not that attractive, he is attractive and full of himself, he says looks are not everything which is true, and he is with her because she stuck with hm while he was locked up 4 yrs. What should i do?should i give it time?
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Don't go there! Run away fast. First off you need to be alone for a while and figure out who you are before you jump into another relationship. And second don't get involved with someone who has a girlfriend that's asking for heartache and trouble!
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