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writes:To men with low sex drive: do you think about sex less than usual? do you masterbate to keep from having sex with your partner because you are not in the mood?
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (23 September 2010):
if your man is masterbating then it is not a sex drive problem,it is most probably something in your sexual lives wich is driving him away from you..usualy men who are extremly busy and workunder pressure have low sex drives and they wont even think about masterbation then..Good luck
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reader, person12345 +, writes (23 September 2010):
 "do you masterbate to keep from having sex with your partner because you are not in the mood?"
This is not a sex drive issue, if this is what your question is about. If you had such a low sex drive that you'd go out of your way to avoid having sex with your partner, that's one issue. But if you do have a low sex drive (or not) and waste what little you have on masturbating, then that's a completely separate issue. You can actually become dependent on masturbation in that you get so used to your own hand and the ease of it that you literally can't have sex with a partner. If as you say, they go out of their way to masturbate to avoid sex, then they have a compulsion/dependence. They need to stop cold turkey with their hand until the ability to be with a partner comes back. Or maybe even counseling.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 That question kind of answers itself. If they're not in the mood, they probably wouldn't be masturbating to begin with.
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