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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My friend thinks I know loads about sex because I know the answers to health questions she asks about sex and know words like dental dams/guards, coitus interuptus, etc. The irony is, she has way more experience! I've only had one lover and only for three months. But, she texted me wanting to know A) How to ask for spanking during sex without looking like a "slut." B) How to um..go to a man's nether regions C) How to get into roleplaying. I dunno how to respond! But, I kinda like the sex guru position I have in her mind. And question C interests me too! lol All help and feedback MUCH appreciated!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (23 September 2010):
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A) Either demonstrate on him first, or just come out with it already! Trust me, if you say "Spank me, baby!" in the middle of sex, he's going to be THRILLED.
B) So you can get into a situation in which there'd be spanking, but you don't know how to go to a man's nether region? This is also a really easy thing to do. While you're making out and getting frisky, move your hands southward. He won't be putting up a fight.
C) Ask him if he has any role-playing fantasies. Ask if he's ever thought about it. You don't need to admit right off the bat that you've been thinking about it! If he lets you into his fantasy, say "okay, let's do it!".
Good luck, sweetness! All of your questions have the same answer - open your mouth! Be a little aggressive. Guys will find it SEXY and you'll have a more exciting sex life.
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