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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): We call them hormones.
Humans are biologically wired to desire sex the second our bodies have the capability to procreate.
Images and thoughts are simply your body nudging you into what, once upon a time when we were not the dominant species on Earth, was the best way to ensure our genetic structure survived.
But seeing as survival is no longer such a pressing matter... we can afford to hold it off for a little longer.
Flynn 24
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Yup, sounds about normal. In fact, out of the blue is when I have some of my more detailed fantasies brewing in my head. It builds up while you're doing something else and gets you all bothered until you find a release through masturbation (which is prefectly normal) or intercourse (only if things are conducive).
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (23 September 2010):
 B13....on the contrary it is normal to not have a boyfriend at this age. (18-21).
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reader, B13  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 You are old enough to have thoughts like that. Its quite natural at this age. It would be strange if you don't have a boyfriend in this age. And yes you can masturbate, it will give you a relief.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Yeah its normal. I've noticed that the slightest things can make you start thinking sexually. I don't reccomend running to look for sex but it would hurt to explore yourself when you have some free time. It might make the thoughts come up less frequently.
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reader, CuteBabe +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Well OFCOURSE it's normal:) 90% of us do!! (if not more too lol) To be honest don't know if you should act on it some say its healthy and good to expriment and others say it's not.. But according to me I guess that you should wait so that your first time with a guy (hopefully you BF or future husband:) )would be OH-SO-SPECIAL!
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