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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i have a cousin who has fallen in love with me. before that we were very close to each other. he was always joking with me and me also i like him a lot.(just like a cousin) however since the past weeks while having a chat with him on the internet he says that he loves me. he once ask me if i want to be girl friend. sometimes i think he might be joking also as he usually do. so i just reply him me also in joke however their was a refusal in my answer somewhere. after that he always claim that he loves me either via net or mobile. however, Saturday last we meet at my grandma's place. he seems to be quite normal. i mean he did not about his love for me which i expected to. but once he was back home and we were chatting on net he told me that he could not talk to me well and that each time he would there was someone around. i also found that on his face book page he usually flirts with so many girls and he also has many girlfriends in his life. he was not reluctant to do that.now it happen so that one of my guy friend has him on his msn. my cousin did not like that guy at all because the latter loves me.in fact he has also been abusing him so many times on chat even before proposing me. when that guy would tel me i would feel that awkward.some days back that guy chatted with him and he said to him that you won't get her. he asked why since i have no one in my life. he replied by saying he has got me in his life!!!! that was totally a lie.then the guy told him he was cheating on me by flirting with girls on facebook. he replies by saying that it is only flirts not love and he say that am aware of it..please tell me what should i do????????? is it his love or lust or just passing time?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Girl he is your cousin sweetheart, this is illegal to have him as your boyfriend and it sounds like he is young and niave and is playing with your emotions. You have to tell your cousin that all he is to you is a cousin and nothing more, nothing more can happen as this will bring devestation to your family. Please speak to a parent or an adult that you trust and tell them about what your cousin has been doing they will be able to advice you. Good Luck.
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