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writes:i had a boyfriend over the summer but he had to go back home afterwards. (he lives VERY far away) We probably wont be able to see each other for at least a year, but we were talking/skyping everyday for a week after he left. now its getting more infrequent. we promised each other that wed get back together later on (and eventually sleep together). However he hasnt been making much of an effort to talk to me. so asking any guys or girls with more knowledge about how guys think: is this typically behavior of a teenage guy? (i did flash him a couple times on skype dont know if this helps) and my friend brought up the idea that he is stringing me along or using me....he seemed so sweet though when he was here and it doesnt seem like him to do something like that, but i havent known him for that long really....so any opinions are fantastic! thank you so much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): I agree, it's the distance. Look out for someone nearer home and don't chase them. Let them chase you.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Unfortunately, sounds like the distance is getting the best of him. LDR's are very hard to maintain, especially for teenagers who have tons going on in their lives.
Don't take it personally if you two drift apart. It's not your fault...it's just the distance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): Hiya, i would ask have you ever seen "He's just not that into you" film? I probably say you did. That films is quite cheesy but in fact it talked about a simple fact which is true. If that guy cares about you and fall for you, believe me no matter where he is, even if he was on an island, he would try to send you a letter through a random ship passing over. If he cares, he'll find a way to contact you to be in touch. Call it silly but he'd be even more nervous worried sending you more emails and texts when not hearing from you if he fell for you. Then i would say good luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): yes this is normal behaviour, have you even thought that he might be finding the distance hard? sometimes guys like to pull away because they miss the other person to much and it is hard to deal with, he obviously trusts you to go into tihs long distance relatinoshiop so i suggest just taking it day by day and try not to worry, always tell eachogther how you feel, you especially. never hold back.. comunication and trust is upmost importance for this to work !
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