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writes:Hi everyone I hope i get some replies from this because I really need help.So I've been dating this guy(Guy A)for about 2 years. The first year was great everything was fine but there was always this girl that would cause conflicts with our relationship. So after a year my boyfriend went to South Dakota to go to college up there and it was our freshman year. I was treated like dead crap. He would always run to this girl that messed around with our relationship but he swears he never did anything with her. There were other things he did but bottom line he treated me like crap and I was always faithful. But by the time he came back for the summer I got so sick of it so I left him and started dating another guy(Guy B) within two weeks. I just felt so hurt I felt like I deserved better. But I was stupid and I had sex with him (Guy B). I didn't love him or anything I just thought a new partner would make me feel better but having sex so soon made me feel so guilty and unmoral so I broke up with him. After my ex found out that I was dating another guy he started chasing hard and he kept on trying for months. I finally forgave him and said we could try this relationship again. but now I'm scared that my current boyfriend (Guy A) will find out that I had sex with the other guy i only dated for a week. I know he's going to end it I'm so scared I don't know what to do because he's been treating me so right and I don't want to loose him now. All I've ever wanted from him was to change. He claimed that the most he did was tell his other friends that he wanted to have sex with other girls and grind on girls at his fraternity house every weekend when we were dating. I don't know what to do because even though I wasn't with him I still feel like having sex with another guy and then getting back with my ex is just not right I don't know what to do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): If you can't tell him the truth then I would not count on this relationship working very well.
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reader, Arcturius +, writes (23 September 2010):
You shouldn't feel bad about settling the score. I'm sure he has had sex with someone other than you somewhere, there's no way he didn't while treating you the way he has. Don't get into the habit of having sex for arbitrary reasons, that always makes one feel bad, but as far as guilt towards guy A? Unnecessary.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 sweetie yor boyfriend as treated you really badly, if i were you i wouldnt have taking him back, him grinding up girls while with you is wrong and you should stand up for yourself. Plus yes you did have sex with this other guy but you were single and although it didnt feel right you still havent done anything wrong, please be better than this boyfriend of yours and tell him the truth, at the end of the day he only came running to you when he found out you had someone new, its male ego he didnt want you until he found out someone else was interested. Darling you need to tell him what happened and if he finishes with you then he aint worth it and if he doesnt and you truly believe that you can be happy with him then at least you have been honest with him. Dont let this eat at you inside. Good Luck.
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