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writes:I have been in a good relationship for about 9 months but in these 9 months I have managed to cheat on my partner several times, he has forgiven me for this but this is the third relationship I have done this in, I never used to do this before then, I can see a future wiv my current partner but I do not want to cheat again and as I cant remember what triggered me off to do it in the first place and have no recollection of the events. can you please give me advice to prevent myself cheating again? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 It sounds like you are sabotaging yourself. Maybe you jsut aren't really for a real relationship.
Cheating is not "just" something that happens. It's a choice and an action. You CHOOSE to either cheat or not. Maybe you need to figure out WHY you think it's OK to cheat. WHY you do it.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 If you have no recollection of it is this because possibly you had to much alcohol? If this is the case, stop drinking if it means destroying your relationship it is not worth it. I am a true believer that if you are truely in love then you wont cheat. If you can see a future get help, go and speak to a counsellor and reassure your partner that you are seeking help, can you imagine what this has done to his self confidence.
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reader, Gomez1230 +, writes (23 September 2010):
Cheating is a horrible thing to do, I think so. I would kill myself if I found out that my partner was cheating on me. If your partner has never cheated on you don't do the same to him because he doesn't deserve it. No one deserves that pain so if you really care about this guy don't put him through the pain of being betrayed.
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