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writes:hi to everyone here..i had a problem..well,thereis a guy n i m having a trong crush over him.in starting,for 2-3months we jus met at work daily for 4-5mins,he use to talk to me,i thought he was interested in me.then,later,i also got interested...then,he asked me to go out with him one day...i didnt said anything..n couldnt make it n text him in evening tht i got busy.he said ok.then next day,i text him n he replied...then we started texting...he is usually busy,so reply me late...1-2times we kinda have long chat on texting.everything was ok...but suddenly he stopped replying me.ok,while we text,sometimes i use to ask him 2-3 times same thing,till he reply...should i had made him annoyed?i didnt met him at wk,since we text.now,i send him 3-4 texts but he didnt reply??should i was too obsessive?y he suddenly ignored me???should i talk 2 him abt this???wat should i do???
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 It sounds like he's lost interest. Being sent texts of the same thing three or four times until he answers comes off as desperate, and he probably felt smothered by it. Stop trying to contact him and let him contact you first.
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Stop texting him luv. If he doesnt text you within 5-7 days, its over. You are smothering him. Give him breathing room. If he is interested he will contact you, and if he doesnt, you will know.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Hi maybe lay of the texting for a while and cool things off. You said if he didnt reply you would text him the same thing maybe 3 or 4 times? Well this could come across as quite obsessive and maybe it scared the man of a bit. So for now stop texting him and if he likes you he will come to you, and if he doesnt this is a mistake to learn from, let a guy chase you and dont be two obsessive as they will lose interest in you. Good luck for the future.
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