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writes:I like a girl a lot, shes been a close friend of mine for awhile. But I want more, over the summer we had a fling. Then it ended until school started. Now we are back to being friends the same way we were before, back when she liked me.The first time I kissed her, i felt something i never had before in any of my past relationships. I feel a connection between her that I haven't felt in my life. I'm a senior, and this is my last year to leave high school with something I can love forever. I want something to fight for, its either her or the military.Shes only dated two other guys, one guy for a week, another for 2 years. The two year one was on and off and the guy was total dick. Just when they broke up, our fling happened, then she ended it.So us continuing friends has been great because she didn't talk to me all summer I thought I lost her. However, I want to be with her. She has been trying to set me up with her friend recently, and its not working out. Her reasoning is,"Your nice, and so is she, you deserve each other". But I feel a hint of jealousy as she does it, like she almost doesn't want it work out. That or its all in my head.I don't know, its late, she just told me both her exes want her back, and I asked her if she wanted them back. Then she said she didn't know, and shes crazy.I'm lost
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 Yes you could ring her up and ask her maybe to go out for a walk or maybe out for lunch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo when would a appropriate time to tell her be? Should I take her out somewhere?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (23 September 2010):
This is a really difficult situation to be in for both of you. Me talkin from past experience one of my best friends really liked me when we were at school and deep down i liked him as well, but i always tried to hide it well. I dont no why us girls do this i guess its just fear i mean if the relationship doesnt work out you have lost a partner and a very good friend. But its time to stand up for yourself. You need to tell this girl how you feel, you need to sit her down and tell her you dont want to be with her friend you want to be with her. Give her some time to think about it and if this is'nt what she wants then maybe you should spend less time with her and more time with other friends and am sure someone else great will come along.!
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