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anonymous
writes:Note: Askers own title:My wife has never told me her sexual fantasies. And when I ask she just kind of stares at the cieling and goes "no i havnt really had any."Now I think she is bullshitting me.Why would she do that? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): Our fantasies are ours and private. Unless we wish to share them. Maybe your wife really doesnt have any! Either way, trying to hound her into telling you what they are. Or accusing her of bs, isnt very sexy. Be patient and let her trust and confidence build up then im sure she will eventually share them with you when shes ready. If she does have any.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 you list your age as 18 to 21, which would make your wife quite young as well.
Here is a tip for you, some young women find it difficult to talk about their sexual fantasies, some like to keep certain thoughts private, she may feel uncomfortable if she feels you are pushing for fantasies and what is wrong with that?
My advise would be to just enjoy the sex you are currently sharing, do some growing up together, build a strong, loving, trusting relationship and let things develop naturually without trying to force them.
I wish you a long and happy marriage together!
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