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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello to everyone! There is this man that I have been seeing on and off since 2005. He is very affectionate and I cannot help but become shy around him. My mother told me to choose him --a week before she died! I fought hard not to be with him because I felt he deserved someone with a fast paced lifestyle. Now he has returned from the army and still wants to be with me. The problem I am having is that he wants to be with me but he wont return a phone call or text. Was I his one night stand or is something wrong?
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reader, Richierich65 +, writes (23 September 2010):
I think you just need to get a real idea from him directly why he does not call or text you back. I would be equally frustrated that he is not responding if I were in your shoes. Like your last advisor has noted, he may not be a big phone user, so you need to clarify that.
Once you get that worked out face to face, then don't let anything stand in your way in pursuing him. If you really believe that this guy is "the one", you owe it to yourself and to both of you to work at this. When you have found someone that you can't live without, don't let them get away. Just make sure he is in the same mindset and heartset as you. You will regret the rest of your life if you both don't find a way to be together if he really is your "puzzle piece". Best of luck. He is a lucky guy.
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