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writes:Why does a girl stay with a cheater or essential give them a another chance.And then EXPECT to be treated like the only girl in the world or push something that isn't there to begin with. Often times i find that they were lacking what they wanted BEFORE a guy even cheated now they have cheated and they want to be made to feel like they are important. I guess this is due to low self-esteem.My example is: I knew a guy who cheated on a girl twice BEFORE he even cheated on her he would not hold her hand he wouldnt touch or kiss her because he didnt want to. He then cheated and she took him back now she expects him to be all touchy feely and affectionate and say or do anything to make her feel like she is "the only one" again.My observation on this is that he will do it for a while because he is in a way being "forced" to it as if he doesnt make her feel special she will leave so he says and does things for a while until she is completely hooked again, and then he realizes she isnt that he wants. In almost all cases a girl who takes him back will get cheated on again or left because the guy final decides it isnt what he wants, until then he will try to "make up" for his actions by pretending she is the only girl. So why do girls stay? Reply to this Question
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reader, CuteBabe +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Okay nice observation to start with:)
My observation here is that such girls definately have low self-esteem in addition to that its not the guy himself who they're hung up to its the idea of the relationship itself no matter what it is and how bad its is!
These girls expect to be treated as dolls although they are subconsiously telling the guy:" hey babe I'm all yours do what you cheat as much as you like and nothing is going to change" weird I know but we all know the old saying "once a cheater always a cheater" if he cheats on you once and you take him back then he'll think it's ok a small gift, a little tear, and a 10$ buquet and everything is back to normal.. Right?!
Girls who take back cheaters deserve to be cheated on.. I'm a girl and I'm saying this because such girls have no self respect.. Respect yourself honey for him to respect you back!!
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