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female
age
41-50,
*o scared
writes:Hello again.... I have a second or shall I say third delima. Now since my husband and I are tring to work on our marriage......we dont have sex anymore like we use to. Since I found out about this affair and the possible baby we have had sexmaybe twice.... Now the hard part for me is that he started talking in his sleep more and more about sex and its not with me. I woke him up to ask was he o.k and his reply was wait i will f--k you in a minute. Am i to think nothing of it or is he really dreaming about having sex with the other woman?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 There's no way you'll ever know for sure so why not make each experience so mind blowing that there's no way he could think of anyone but you during the experience and "poof" she'll be vaporized.
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reader, Myrrh  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 I would try not to think into it too deeply. He was having a dream and we cant control those. If you two havent been having sex, it may be starting to play on his mind and trouble his sleep.
Given that he cheated, anything slightly suspicious will send up red flags for you. Its understandable. But in this instance, what he was saying was unintentional. So try not to worry. All the best and i hope things work out ok for you both.
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reader, Hrdrh  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Try and talk to him, you guys should come out openly and trash issues out. learn to trust your partner irrespective of anything and with trust, you guys can break all barriers.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Nobody but him can answer this question darling. You need to be able to trust this man if you are wanting this marriage to work, in saying that this man needs to earn your trust back after being unfaithful and it doesnt sound like he has done that at all. My heart goes out to you this must be very difficult on you. Dont just jump to the conclusion thought that he is dreamig of this other woman, there could be thousands of explanations. The best thing to do is sit him down and tell him how you feel and make sure he knows how much he has hurt you and for urself make sure he is working very hard to prove he still loves you. Good luck.
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