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writes:Hi,I am 27 yr old girl and deeply in love with my chat friend who was my colleague in previous organisation but different country...after i left for another job we kept chatting and exchanging emails and photos. He also says he loves me. recently after 3 months of chats we video chatted and first day it went well next day he wanted to see my bra...and constantly pushed me saying he loves me and crazy about me and i did not want to upset him so i started removing my top but i felt so bad and started crying ...now he is like kind of hurt tht he made me cry ..apologising and said we wont video chat ...what this guy is like?? help
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe are still in contact. He meant was 'no more video chat'. We are talking and exchanging emails. He kept saying he feels terrible of how he did.I am a shy person from conservative family background. And we have not even met each other and did not like it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): if he does 'love' you, then seeing you cry probably made him feel guilty. he was ready to move forward, but neglected to make sure you were too. he probably just feels really bad and is worried about feeling guilty the next time he sees you.
on the other hand, he may not have been all that interested in you. he made you comfortable enough to do what he wanted and once you starting crying, that was a sign that was as far as you'd go. i doubt this one is true, but just saying.
if you ever get a hold of him again, ask why he wasn't talking to you. if he doesn't contact you, sorry. just wait a while and see what happens.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 He sounds a sincere guy, but it also sounds like you have some insecurities somewhere down the line or your not giving the full story here.
If you were deeply in love then showing your bra would not be such a big issue as sexual encounters are sure to happen in loving relationships.
Have you been involved in relationships before or is this your first?
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