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writes:Hi, iam a convicted felon that was released from prison december,2008. i jus recently landed a job about 3weeks ago. she gave me sex when i first got out for about a week then she started putin me on pussy probation becuz i didnt have a job. now that i have the job she still wont give in. she keeps making up excuses. i think shes being selfish. i've always gave her money when i had it...she never gave me any nor have i asked her for any. we went through this in 2005 when i lost my job...we broke then got back together. i dont think she is being fair...its hard for me to work,hlep her pay bill and not get any sex....what u think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): Maybe you feel like you deserve her treatment because of your conviction, but you don't. To start over and succeed you must have self respect. She needs to have respect for you too. If she does not see anything in you to respect, then one of you needs to change. Be honest with yourself, and if you feel you are doing your best, then find someone else. She sounds like a controller to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): She's not treating you like a man or a boyfriend. Step out, let her know that pussy probation crap isn't flying with you
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 She likes money too much. Find a girlfriend who doesn't trade sex for money. It's too confusing this way, prostitutes are a lot more truthful about these things.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Go and find someone else who appreciates you more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): It could simply be she's not in the mood. For many women there are lots a factors that can impact whether she wants to be intimate with her man or not. If you don't have your stuff together (meaning your life, job/career, dreams & goals, ability to provide her security and protection, etc) quite honestly she's going to be turned off. It seems like you've been together off and on for a while and that initial lust for each other isn't enough anymore. Also, your desire for sex with her comes across selfishly and as though you deserve it. It needs to simply be a desire that you both have for each other and not because you do this for her (giving her money) so the least she can do for you is have sex.
No matter how hot the guy is, if he can't provide me with the comforts of knowing he's got himself together or actively working towards it, it's a big turn off.
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (23 September 2010):
 She isnt your girlfriend, she's your mother. Save up your money and skedaddle out of there.
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reader, Battista +, writes (23 September 2010):
She is being very controlling.
I think you should find someone else.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Find a new girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): Well, sex should not be a treat. What are you...a dog? "Good boy, good boy...here's some pussy for you". WTF.
Not a healthy relationship, from what you describe. It really took you almost 2 years to get a job tho?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Has it ever occured to you that it may be because you view her as little more than a sex object? The way you describe it all is demeaning and I imagine it would make her think she is nothing more to you? Do you love her or is your motive for working simply just sex?
I hope that helps.
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