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writes:So I'm 19 years old and I've never had a relationship. I really need to know wat im doin wrong guys! I recently met someone, who i'm really attracted too and i felt that the feelings were mutual. I sent him a message letting him no that I'm interested, and I feel quite embarassed now as I never got a reply. I need to know how do you get a guy interested? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Thanks guys for the replies! :):)
How can i make my feelings clear, without seeming too forward or potentially scare the person away? xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): You probably are not doing anything wrong,i think you just need to make your feelings a bit clear when you have feelings for someone, like by flirting and such then you can see if the feelings are reciprocated before putting yourself out there completely. It's pretty normal to feel embaressed i think we've all been there when we put ourselves out there and its unseuccessful, just don't let this make you scared to put yourself out there again. There can be 3 reasons why he hasn't replied, maybe he hasn't seen it yet, or he doesn't know how to reply, or unfortunately he may not be interested. But do not let this knock your confidence!:) Hope this has helped x
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reader, Katie-Lynn  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Hello! You know I used to be in your position so font sweat it! I know this might seem a little cliche but you cannot make yourself do certain things to attract men because it attracts CERTAIN men not men that could potentially like you for who you are. It's WAY more comfortable to just act yourself without the stress of thinking about what's pleading to them. There could be s guy that finds you pleading just as you ate so hold up for that guy! As for the letter, I say that you shouldn't love a guy that doesn't love you because it's a waste of time if they won't waste it for you. Just give him some time! Best of luck to ya hun 3
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