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Since she moved away she's not paying the same attention to me... advice needed!

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Question - (23 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 September 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend acts like she loves me so much and that she wants to talk to me soo much every day. we have a long distance relationship because she moved to canada but every day she inboxes me on facebook saying how she misses me so much and how she wants to see me and i make her day. but whenever i see her she doesnt look that excited, like if we are having a video call if i say something she would reply to someone first and ask me what i said like 5 seconds later and it annoys me so much, it happens like 6-7 times in 5 minutes and its really pissing me off because i put her first before everything and she makes me feel like that.

I feel like i cant trust her because my best friend asked her out when i was dating her 1 month ago and she didnt say no straight away. he asked her next time you come from canada go out with me and she said, "oh i dont know yet, im just going with the flow, and im not single at the moment so i dont know yet" it really pissed me off because when i found out she was like oh i dont like him n stuff but she didnt say no to him.

i need help please

thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010):

" you need to stop bringing things from the past back to life, it makes me look like a bad person all the time"

she's not being truthful and trying to hurt you by not answering your questions.

why wouldnt she show you the message? She obviously wrote back and said a few things shes trying to hide from u.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010):

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she didnt say no or i dont like you to him. all she said to him was i am not single at the moment. does that mean she would go out with him if she wasnt with me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010):

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After i found out we had an argument for 3 hours which was completely silent i didnt talk to her for 3 hours we just sat there in a park on the bench for 3 hours. she said she wont bother talking to him anymore but when i went on her facebook she had changed her password and she told me how he had sent her a message but she wont tell me what it said i asked her i want to see that message and instead she started saying " you need to stop bringing things from the past back to life, it makes me look like a bad person all the time"

i dont know what to do she still talks to him but on the other side she acts like she loves me and all

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010):

sounds like a liar and a cheat to me. i knew a girl once that said she loved everyone she met, actually i know two girls that said that. they could always sms and call and email people telling them she loved them.

no matter how hard you try you wont get her full attention, and then when you try to break up she'll cry and give you all these sob stories but dont believe a word she says, unless she gives you all her facebook and email passwords.

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