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writes:Ok my girlfriend is in liverpool due to University so we're in a long distance relationship she's always going out partying and flirting with males (you can see in the pictures) She claims she's not cheating but honestly I think she is. How can I stop being so jealous this is going to end our relationship I can see it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): I don't think you can to be honest. She's out partying with random guys, guy friends, flirting with them, dancing with them and even sleeping in the same bed as them (possibly anyway).
I'm in college at the moment and all the 18-19 year olds that are like your girlfriend end up in bed with their guy and girl friends after nights out. It doesn't really mean anything to them. Now they don't have sex or anything but very often they can get intimate/cuddle.
I had a conversation about this with an 18 year old in my course the other day. She stated that she thought one of her male friends was gay, when I asked her why, she said it was because of all the male friends and guys she's ended up in bed with, he was the only one that never tried anything on.
Now your girl might not do this kind of stuff but she's living out of home in a different city and she's enjoying herself. Guys will be involved you just have to decide what kind of involvement she is having with these guys and whether you can accept that.
I've had many, many discussions with younguns on my course and it's the general consensus amongst them that long distance relationships don't work because none of them want to be tied down and most realize that it's unworkable because there are just too many nights out, too many parties and far too much opportunity and temptation. Plus when they get drunk at their age all bets are off, they could do anything.
Well the situation is she's going to be living like this for another few years. It's going to be nearly impossible to maintain a relationship at your stage in life and with such a distance between you. When she's guaranteed to be out getting drunk and parting with other guys. In my opinion it's only a matter of time before she slips up. It only takes one drunken minute to suddenly find yourself lips locked with another person.
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reader, johnjohnson +, writes (23 September 2010):
johnjohnson is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAs in the Pictures on her facebook
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