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writes:Hi, I was just in a very bad break up and am wondering now if I should just give up or if I should try. The Situation: We have been together for 2 years, and occasionally have argued about things. We got into a really bad argument a while ago and broke up over it. The break up only lasted for a night. Today (a week after that happened) he broke up with me. He said he needed space, didn't want to be in a relationship anymore, he needed space, and didn't know if he loved me anymore. This all really came out of no where for me, as after that one night break up (and before) everything has been perfect between us. Two weeks ago we were talking and he discussed proposals, so I'm reluctant to believe he doesn't love me anymore. As we've been together for so long and we have always been so in love, I really don't want us to be over forever. The Question: Should I give up or try? If I should try, any suggestions on how to help him realize he is in love with me?
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reader, Boy Blue  +, writes (6 October 2010):
He will realize it if you give him space. Although giving him space will clear his head and allow him to decide if he loves you or not, so it can work both ways. I would say give him the space he wants and give yourself some as well, sounds like you both need it.
Give it some time and if nothing happens then try to contact him and see what's going on.
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