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writes:I am 8 months pregnant and also joining fellowship at dis church. Since I have been going and taking my classes I was asked did I want to be baptized. I always wanted to be baptized and be in a church and now that I'm pregnant I want the same for my child. After talking to friends and family they don't think its a good idea since I'm so close to my due date but I don't understand its just water and its a closer step to god. Please help me and tell me your opinion Reply to this Question
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (7 October 2010):
 The only reason I can think of not to go ahead with the baptism, is the possibility of a slip and fall accident. If the people performing the baptism are experienced they can handle it safely. Having a second person handy to help, just in case would be the logical precaution.
I am making some assumptions here. 1) a total immersion baptism. 2) An indoor font baptism (not outdoor lake / river / beach) I would suggest waiting if you want a river as footing can be treacherous and current tricky and you are already off balance.
Theologically, I don't see waiting for the baby to be baptized at the same time. After all the baptism is about you making a commitment to God. The baby's commitment to God is a different event altogether anyway.
If you should decide to wait until after childbirth, you should schedule the baptism at least 6 weeks after to avoid any possible complications.
Pregnancy hormones affect the way you view the world. Your friends and family may be thinking that you will not feel the same after childbirth. So they may be trying to hold you back until they think you are better able to make this life decision. Your emotions will change with childbirth. That doesn't mean that your commitment to God and Church would change, although that is one possibility. The best thing is to keep up with your gospel study, and fellowship. These can be a great support to you should you experience postpartum depression.
The final word on safety is, always consult with your doctor before doing any activity that you are not used to during pregnancy.
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 do it as soon as you can. and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): I say go for it! I think you'll be just fine and the Lord will watch over you and make sure you get through it just fine. You are taking a step closer to him so he'll be there and it will all go fine. =]
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