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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I cheated on my girlfriend, I told her and we broke up. Now I want her back. I'm in love with her and I can't stand knowing she's not with me. I need her back in my life. How do I get her back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): Well that's a difficult one. You need to convince her that you will never cheat again. Can you do that? Why did you cheat in the first place?
I wouldn't blame her if she kept away. I would.
If she can trust you again, you will be very lucky, and had better not cheat again.
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reader, Viajante  +, writes (6 October 2010):
Another thing, if you cheat "by accident", it's a one off and will never happen again, DON'T TELL HER.
If it doesn't affect your feelings, DON'T TELL HER. She doesn't need to know and it will only fuck things up. Anyone who says they would like to know is full of shit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): I think if you really care about her enough you should go for it. Give it time for her to have some space. Then ask her if she would want to hang out sometime, and when you hang out just act normal and like the way things used to be. Eventually you can apologize and hopefully she will want to move forward with you as a part of your life. But if she doesn't, you also have to respect that. I'd say give it a few days with no contact first though so she can cool down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): Here is the thing you actually only want her back now since you don't have her. Its very normal to feel that way after someone leaves. think of it this way if you really loved her as much as you say you would of never cheated in the first place. Just give things time you will eventually get over here but for her sake and yours I would leave it alone.
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