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writes: What are some signs a girl could look for in a guy to tell that he is only interested in sex and nothing more prior to actually going out or anything? Primarily interested in the guys' responses. Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): He will look at your body, yes he will give eye contact as well to see if you respond.
He will be trying to touch you a lot, this usually means he wants to be intimate but not necessarily have a long term relationship.
Also depends on his status, single, married, etc.
If he is already with someone else, it is usually only the sex he wants.
I supposeyou will only find out when he initiates a date.
Good luck!
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reader, Odds  +, writes (6 October 2010):
 Lazy-Guy is right. You can't really tell before dating for a while, although if a guy has a ton of options, odds are good he will only want sex.
You can tell after dating a short while though. If he's a player with a storied past, likely he won't wait more than three dates for you to put out before he leaves. So, if he hasn't even had a handjob by the fourth date, but still appears enthusiastic, he's probably not a habitual player.
Some so-called "nice guys" will also string you along. These are the ones who are bitter at not getting enough sex in their twenties - not without cause, of course, but still something worth avoiding. If a guy seems very bitter over women in general, he will feel no guilt using you for sex.
So, look for guys willing to wait more than three or four dates, and who are pleasant to women they have no opportunity to sleep with.
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reader, doublejack +, writes (6 October 2010):
I'm sorry to say this, but unfortunately there's no real good way to know if a guy is just interested in sex unless he says something to that effect (such as he doesn't want anything serious, or he broaches the FWB topic, etc.) Only time will tell what his true intentions are.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 October 2010):
 You can't see before dating, that is why dating was invented. And the easiest way to tell is NOT by looking at how he behaves towards you, but towards others.
You are NOT special.
If other people are to him objects to be used, then you are an object to be used.
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