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41-50,
*hiney
writes:Me and My ex used to chat on gmail. I created that account for us only. And then I added few other friends with whom I chat often. He is always there online blinking but i never buzzed him or talked with him. Suddenly one morning, he typed in custom message under his ID "stalker...". I did not pay attention and moved on. Then again after few hours he typed "Stalker...lol"Then I felt that he feels that Iam following him online. So I typed that "he has very strong misconceptions about himself" May be he was offended and he went offline immediatly.Can anyone tell me that was he joking or tryingto initiate a talk. We are not on talking terms with each other. I wonder if he is so upset seeing me blinking, then why cannot he bloCk my ID and get rid of this.P.S After break up,I never e mailed, texted , called or talked with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): Using word “stalker” against yours EX. Wow. I am sorry to say but it looks like he really hates you!!
If he want to initiate “talk”, he will write hello etc not “stalker”. I think he has some strong reasons to believe that you are not leaving him alone or “stalking” him. First mistake you did was adding friends because he may still think that ID is just for two of you! Now either you move yours friends to another ID or be invisible to him. Though you may still have strong feelings for him but this is not going to help!
I guess he still thinks that you have feelings for him and that you come to that ID hoping he and you will again spark but clearly he doesnt want any!
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reader, yaytentacles +, writes (6 October 2010):
 Just ignore it. If you aren't talking, you aren't talking.
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