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writes:In a long term relationship that has lasted for almost 5 years, is forgiving the guy countless times for the same mistake a good thing? The girl in this relationship has went through many break ups but patched back with him thinking he might change for good. The girl has went through so much of emotional hurt being with him. She got slapped by her bf 2 years ago and she complains he being very possessive. She frequently quarrels with him but after that be in good terms with him and then after some time, another conflict starts and this has become a pattern in this relationship. This relationship has progressed this far because she has forgiven him many times. Currently she is happy with him, So what could happen if she still wishes to stay with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (6 October 2010):
 She'll only get hurt again, and again, and again.
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reader, Jen1689  +, writes (6 October 2010):
 If this girl continues to forgive her partner for the same mistakes over and over again, he will only continue to hurt her. End of story. One cannot stay with a person in hopes that they will change. It's just not practical, nor is it possible. A person who hurts another person continuously cannot possibly love them, and therefor will definitely not be willing to change for them. It's as simple as that. Understand that things will not get better with time. It's simply got to come to an end.
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