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*punkygirl2003
writes:I just want to know if I should be worried my husband is cheating? He does not show me affection anymore and has been lying about his whereabouts. He seems to be caring an awful lot lately about his appearance but has not been for my benefit. When should I worry? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 October 2010):
Lying about whereabouts.
No affection anymore
Caring about appearance, but not for you.
Now is the time to worry. DON'T suddenly confront him, or you'll get no answers. Do more digging and find out where's going. But this does sound like he could be having an affair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): I feel sorry for you as I know how this feels. It does sound like he is cheating.
Confront him, because in the long run this will be less painful than always wondering. If he admits it you can then get on with your life. If he denies it, ask him why he is lying etc.
Don't forget that if you do find out, it will be painful for a while but it will also, eventually, give you the chance to either resolve it with him or end the relationship. It could be a good opportunity to sort out any problems that made him want to cheat.
Please don't take it personally, as a lot of men do cheat. It doesn't make you any less attractive etc.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 October 2010):
 Right now. You have just mentioned 3 big red flags that usually mean something is going on behind your back. I say
usually because of course this is not mathematics and there could be other reason to explain your husband's changed behaviour. But it will be safer anyway if you keep your eyes well open.
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