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writes:Me and my girl friend have been going out for 2 years and 6 months now. we were friends in grade school and i had a death in the family about 4 years ago and my aunt remarried so my mm had a wedding shower for her at our house and i had gotten re acquainted with my girlfriend from 12-14 years ago and ever since we started going out she is always complaining about how fat she is. and it really bugs the heck out of me but i love the way she looks. so i keep telling her how much i love the way she looks and she just keeps complaining. she isn't much bigger then i am and im a 32W. she is always working out . but she told me to day to tell her that "i wish she was skinny" i dont know what i should do please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): Hey pal!
I think this woman is suffering from what I suffered from, american society pressures to look a certain. Fuck hollywood. Fuck porn. REAL women are among us in our communities. She may be reading too many magazines, or watching certain shows, or perhaps just in general getting pressured from her friends. I know a guys GF who speaks to me often and she hates he had pron mags once and she was convinced okay he only likes certain types...so she went and well got implants and got thin and all of that. Me personally, I have no type. You need to keep giving her potisitve reinforcement and being consistent and also patient. If I were you man and I was with her to help her out: She needs to feel desired. Lay that woman on the bed on her stomach...and start kissing every damn inch of her body from head, neck, waist, legs, feet...flip her over do the same thing and ease ur way into feeling her...go slow and be very passionate. This is something I came up with on my own and found that it has worked with women who have insecurities, altho Ive only described it...never actually done it.
kind regards
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