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writes:i am 20 this year and i have a boyfriend. well me and my boyfriend is in a pretty good relationship. but the thing is, im actually having an affair with this guy who is an owner of a restaurant and he's 36 years old. and he is married.well he's a korean but living in Malaysia because he works here. i guess he's gonna live here for the rest of his life because he has 2 works here in Malaysia. one in Kuala Lumpur and one in Kota Kinabalu. he's a very busy man. actually, at first me and my friends were just like a regular customer (because my friends love to eat at his restaurant and one of my friend likes him too). but there was one time when we actually talked on fb until 5am in the morning after so long i never been to his restaurant. he actually asked me out for a movie so i accepted it because he said he havent been watching movies for so long because he didnt have the time to.i actually thought that his wife is living with him in Malaysia but actually his wife is in Korea because she had to keep on going to the hospital there for some reasons. well a reason i know was because she couldnt get pregnant. but he said sometimes his wife would come and stay in Malaysia for about 2-3 months. but our relationship started few weeks after his wife went back to Korea. he said that his wife might be coming back on new years eve. he said that he wants to go on a relationship with me because he said he usually just go for anything that he wants. and he said he likes me. i actually accepted that because i liked him too. he's a very very very nice guy. he's a very good boss in the restaurant and he's very good to his customers too. he's a very polite guy and thats why i liked him. he even helped me alot with my korean language because im actually studying korean language lately. and he normally pay things for me which i felt pretty bad because i just dont want him to feel that im just going for his money. sometimes he have to go to Kota Kinabalu because his boss from the other company needed him to do some work and thats when i miss him the most. he'll be quite busy so usually the time we would talk is during night time. he calls me everyday without fail and we always talk more than half an hour. he'll be telling me things about his work and stuffs. nowadays he's really busy so we didnt get to meet that often but he still calls me everyday. sometimes i would come by to his restaurant and he'll just sit down and he had to pretend to his staffs that he's helping me out with my korean language homework. i know people would say its not good to date a married man and this relationship will be going nowhere but day by day im starting to like him even more. im afraid that i might fall in love with him. which i think i already do. there was one time he got drunk and he called me and asked me whether do i love him or not. i dont know whether he does love me or not since he asked me that question. i wanted to ask him whether he still remembers asking about that to me but i guess its gonna be abit awkward. i really wanted to ask him that but i dont have the guts to ask him. :Sbut i think its gonna be hard for me to let him go now. what im worried now is i dont know how he's going to treat me when his wife comes back to Malaysia. whether is he going to ignore me or still contact me and going out with me secretly? im so worried. i seriously dont know what to do now. help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell we so far we havent even kissed or made love yet. well sorry that i didnt include the exact question in it. the question was should i continue with this married man because i love my boyfriend too. and the other problem is i love 2 persons now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): what is the question exactly- whether you will replace his wife? whether you are only his F buddy and nothing more? whether you are his dirty secret and will amount to nothing?
you got it made - exchanging your body/company for goods he is buying you. you are his exclusive prostitute because he is buying you. is this wha you want. please end your relationship with your bf. you now have a sugar daddy and you like being with this married man. so you have chosen and dont expect any sympathy for your affair.
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