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writes:Hello DearCupid.org,Over a year ago, my senior year in High School, I made a friend. Her name was Kristine. A few weeks after talking ot her, I started tutoring her in math, she wasn't that smart and didn't show that much interest in school. But, she had this amazingly beautiful friend by the name of Kay. Kristine eventually told me that she really, really liked me but I could not return the feeling. I told her sorry. She knew previous to this that I liked her friend, Kay. Kay and I then started texting about Kristine, soon Kay developed feelings for me.We began talking a lot, and were planning on getting together, but her friend Kristine still liked me. A lot. She said we couldn't work and I alwas said that I will keep waiting until the time will be. It went on for 3 months, I turned down other offers from women during this time but, my heart was breaking from lonliness and from hateful messages from Kristine. She became very bitter that I would not show interest in her.Then, I finally got involved with a woman by the name of Alison. I thought she would help soothe the pain, and Kay was always telling me to just move on. I didn't want to and I still haven't.This is my problem, DearCupid.I'm in love with Kay.I love Alison, but my love for Kay is much stronger.Kay is cautious when it comes to second chances, but i'm a believer and I love her.What's right to do?And what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): Thats really hard. If I were you, I would ask Kay again before you make any drastic decisions with Alison. Tell her the truth and if what you guys had was real, she will agree to be with you. You didnt make any mistakes and even though you love Alison, you will always be thinking of Kay. You have to try, at least.
Good Luck!
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