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writes:im 11 weeks pregnant and husband has left. he doesnt want to come to appts. scared!help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (13 October 2010):
 You don't say if your husband left because the relationship has been in trouble for a while, or because you found out you were pregnant. Either way I appreciate it is an emotional time for you at the moment. You cannot make your husband face up to his fatherly responsibilities, although he will have to pay child support either way. Try not to get too stressed as this can affect the health of you and the baby. You need to accept that you may be parenting the child alone. On a positive note, kids change your life in wonderful ways. It is hard work but amazing too. At least you will get unconditional love from your baby. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): it happend to me too but i bounced back.im taking care of my baby alone.and im doing great.you just have to be strong and maybe he might come.sory that you are in pain.it wil go away.just dont stress a lot hey.things happen for a reason and GOD knows why.stay strong and eat healthy.
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reader, mtbutterflyrose  +, writes (13 October 2010):
Omg im so sorry to hear that :-( I know when i was pregnant with my first one my boyfriend left too, then a few months later he came back and explained what had happened. he got scared!! Having a baby is so scary for men, especially if this is his first. Not to mention at 11 weeks a womens hormones go crazy. After 2 kids with that boyfriend he and i split for good and then i met my husband :-) now we are 12 weeks pregnant together and things are great. Just keep this in mind; You can do this alone, as hard as it may be at times and as horrible it is of him to do this too you in this moment when you need him the most; Being a single mom happens for a reason. Good luck on your pregnancy, yay your having a baby. :-) You can do this!
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