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writes:hi,My best friend has kissed my ex-boyfriend, whom she knew I had feelings for him still. I'm still friends with my ex, only because he wanted to stay friends with me. I don't want to hurt them both by saying I don't want them to be together. I don't want to be selfish. But also I really don't want them to be together at all. Should I let them be? or should I tell them how I really feel?
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reader, Ricemonster  +, writes (13 October 2010):
 The question is: why does it bother you?
If you still believe you have a chance to be with your ex again and want him to reserve that chance only for you, then you have two choices: a) voice your opinion and tell the guy what you want or b) remind yourself why you two are no longer together.
Ultimately, you have to identify why it bothers you and what this friendship means to you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 October 2010):
You really needed to say something before all this happened. She has rather stabbed you in the back to an extent, but at the same time he is an ex, so you have no claim anymore. Unfortunately, if you say something, she won't listen or care, and you'll look jealous and 'not over' it at all. That's not what you want. I just don't see how now after they've kissed and got closer you can suddenly voice your feelings and try to split them. I think you'd be better pulling away from them both and concentrating on yourself.
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