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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I need help with things in the bedroom. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months now and we make love nearly every day without fail, we took each others viginity. But now im woried that im not as good as him because whenever im taking lead role he manages to take it, is he telling me something? or do i need to try spicing up things? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, dirtball +, writes (13 October 2010):
Sometimes in the heat of the moment our hips just start thrusting. I wouldn't read too much into it. It sounds like you're leading a good sex life. Do you communicate during sex? Do you guide eachother? If not, then I would suggest starting to do that. It will leave you both more fulfilled and keep questions like this from popping into your head.
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female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (13 October 2010):
Ok well maybe its just his ego and he wants to be the one doing all the leading. Maybe he just feels happier this way. However if this is getting to you then you need to sit down and talk honestly with him ask him what he likes and ask him to show you what he would like you to do.
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