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writes:I split form my long term partner 12 months ago and immediatley met someone else. i am living on my own with my son. my new partner as been with me 24/7 and always telling me how much he loves me. he is a proper gentleman. our sex life is amazing, the only problem is im a little insecure and argue with him when we go out, now im regretting this as he says something is telling him the relationship is not right although loving me is not the issue here. i feel sick to the stomach i can't bear to lose him. we have had a 3 day break. he is wanting to have a chat tommorow which i am dreading. Help!
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 I'm sorry to hear that. I reccomend distancing yourself from him for the time being since having him so close might slow down the healing because you will then have to see him with someone else.
Don't lat this get you down, this may just have to be the time in your life where you realize that you don't have to be insecure and you don't have to worry. Another guy will come around and when he does you need to be all that you can be, not for him but for yourself. Don't think that just because this didn't want to deal with it doesn't mean that all is lost. Make some changes in your life, maybe go for a makeover and when you're ready get back out in the world.
I know whats it's like to lose someone, essecially on who just gives up on problems that they are faced with and life has shown me that there are better things to come and hope you take some time to let them come find you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thnaks for your advise but he did end up breaking up with me he immediatley went to soemone else who he is happy with he says although he wants us to remain friends i am totally destraut and finding it very difficult to get over him
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reader, The Realist +, writes (14 October 2010):
I think he wants to be with you but wants you to work towards over coming your insecurity. When you get together to talk with him tell him that you want to work through it and get over it but you'll need his help. The worst thing I think anyone can hear from their partner is that they are giving up because it makes the partner feel like they are useless. I am wondering what you are insecure about, maybe I could give some advice on that side of things as well.
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