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26-29,
*uvDrunk
writes:There's a guy. like always. And he's my best guy friend and I'd tell him anything and i love him...and i will never let myself "like like" him because i know he's kinda 2 faced.He told my friend he likes her while he's goin out with some one else. He leads me on though and then when i learn that he goes for another girl it cuts down my self confidence. He'll tell me that i'm cute and nice and it burns as it hits me that he'll never see how amazing i really am.After the last burn i decided that he's not worth the worry but it still hurts. I feel like i'm never good enough, my last boyfriend dumped me after 4 days because he just decided that he didn't like me anymore. Why can't i be good enough? What's wrong with me? Even the nice guys don't like me...why? I'm pretty and i've lost a lot of weight and i'm in shape and nice and funny. What's wrong with me?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 October 2010):
I doubt there's anything wrong with you. I suspect it comes down to two things.
1 - You're still only a teenager. Unfortunately, teenage girls mature faster then teenage boys, so whereas you're more ready for dating, boys your age simply don't get it. That's why your ex ended it after 4 days. It wasn't you. It was the fact that he just wasn't ready.
2 - Your choice of guys to fancy. Says a lot that you went out with one guy who ended it after 4 days (probably due to immaturity), and that you fancy a guy who leads you on.
I don't think there's anything wrong with you. Right now, just focus on yourself. There's no rush to be dating. It's better to wait and meet the right guy for you than cycle through loads or rubbish ones.
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